So the thirty’s so far, really have been dirty for me. I have tried internet dating for a mere 6 weeks, watched a bit porn for the first time and thought a lot more about fulfilling my sexual fantasy’s. In short I have had sex on the brain pretty much non-stop! I am sure my girlfriend’s are sick of my constant dirty confessions. What I find most fascinating is how other’s perceive sex.
Men assume they can make women happy based on what they themselves want in and bed and what their previous sexual liaison’s entailed. It’s interesting what you learn about other woman from bedding men. Some are starfish, some make no noise and give no direction, some dominate and always let their partner know what they need, some are boring, others frisky and open.
I have also learnt a lot about men from my internet experience, a lot believe flirting, talking about sex openly with me or another girl when they are seeing someone ok - is it? Everyone is different but am sure their girlfriends would be hurt and angry if they found out:
I had a guy ask if he could buy my undies! What the f###!
Another guy tell me he wanted to cheat on his girlfriend (she didn’t know) and he could only meet during work hours but would be prepared to pull a sick day. Again what the f###!
Another guy stalk me and always pull out when we organised to meet.
And a guy who refused to send me his photo but wanted to have phone sex and send dirty texts.
Am I a looney magnet?
There is some light at the end of the tunnel. I met my fuck buddy - or FB on the internet. He is quite normal and has helped me to understand myself and other women better in bed. Encourages me to try new things (only if I want to) and believe’s like me that woman should be proud and open about enjoying sex. It is plurely no strings attached, physical encounters combined with respect and a genuine like for one another, all of which is incredibly refreshing. I’m shocked about how many men still want to believe that any woman they are serious about is virginal. Are we living in the dark ages? Personally I believe the more slutty your sexual partner is the more fun you will have - as long as it is safe!
Why is watching porn and being sexually active still so taboo?